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margeulis
twenty-one
12/12/1987
full-time sim undergrad
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Friday, June 23, 2006
i'm stuck in a rut
people are being the most insenstive morons they can ever be
not a big deal?
maybe you see it that way
have you seen the bigger picture?
nope i dont think so
how i feel is not important
fine i'll juz shut myself
anyway,
guidelines on the 5 things to do when mardhiah gets angry:
no.1
please please just listen to her rattle it off,
do not try to make sense out of her yet
if you can't then stay away
no.2
do not agitate her further e.g. telling lame jokes
no.3
do not ever push the blame to her
because she'll not get angry;
if she doesn't think its her fault
no.4
please do not repeatedly ask why
she needs at least 5-10 mins of silence
more rather like cooling down period
to rationalize things out
no.5
try to talk to her again after she cools down
please be more sensitive
do not provoke her feelings in any way
listen attentively and emphatize
get it?
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